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female
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36-40,
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writes:Dear Cupid,Just a quick question. There's this boy in my life who I find attractive and he finds me attractive back (though I'm taken for but he's gone for work - I am NOT cheating). He's stayed overnight at my house twice in the same bed, nothing happened except cuddling when we've watched movies and fallen asleep.I just want to know what he thought of when I cuddled him. What I'm potentially giving off. What do guys think of this? I'm honestly clueless. Reply to this Question
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reader, Empressjai  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 You stated loudly that you have not cheated. You allow some guy to sleep in your bed twice and that isnt cheating? If youre that liberal then why dont you tell your bf and allow him to sleep with some girl and only cuddle. Your guy is away and you decide to play. You are both attracted to one another and you end up in the same bed. He waiting for the moment and he's testing the waters here. He's probably thinking you got a guy why are you doing this with him. He maybe even thinking that you are someone who cannot be trusted.
A cuddle can still lead to trouble and you are putting yourself in the line of fire. I see this as cheating..you need to grow up and stop playing games
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reader, Blondiebrooke69 +, writes (8 June 2010):
Dear clueless, well for starters he probably feels like he can get u to cheat if you spend the night in the same bed even if its only a couple times and you may not consider cuddling cheating but it can lead to so much more...would u want your boyfriend knowing he spent the night in your bed and your attracted to him? I dont think so. He probably would be upset.
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