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writes:one day me and my friend and her boyfriend and his friend went out after days i been told he fancys me which i did too but he asked my friends boyfriend for my msn so we can get to know each other, i didnt mind so he add me but its been 2 months now and he just ask me for my phone number i give it to him, at first he just text me at that time i didnt mind after 1 week he started to phone me and we chatted half and hour each time he phones me, still he didnt ask me out wich i thought it was weird finally he asked me on a date we went out wich was nice and finally i started to like him more but still he didnt ask me out and that weird i can see he likes me but i dont know if he has next girl can you help me plz
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reader, Hippieman182 +, writes (8 June 2010):
 I think maybe you should ask him out? he might just be shy or maybe he thinks you don't like him that way. best of luck
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reader, Empressjai +, writes (8 June 2010):
 This is just the start of the dating process...guy asks out girl to see if there is any connection....any compatibility between them.It sounds as if this is what this guy is doing. He is taking his time in checking you out and you should be doing the same...taking your time to see if he matches up to what you want in a man. You're not going to be able to tell after one date. What is your rush? He is not your boyfriend and you're not in a relationship so relax and enjoy what time you do have with him and when he's not around carry on with your life. He is just a man, nothing more nothing less..just another fellow human being!!
Why is it weird for a guy not to ask out a girl? When a guy asks you out on a date, the ball is in his court to ask you out on a second one. Men take their time in dating but women tend to be in this huge rush and push towards getting a boyfriend. He is checking you out and if he doesn't ask you out again then i guess he's not really interested in you in that girlfriend kinda way. Don't become fixated on this one guy, date other guys so you don't become attached to this guy thinking he's "the one" when the signs say otherwise. Date around and what i mean by that is check out other guys but don't get physical with them way too soon - that can seriously cloud your judgement. If this particular guy really likes you - you will not be in any doubt about that.
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reader, tonydsd +, writes (8 June 2010):
Hmm, well from a guy perspective i think that he likes you, but the longer you guys wait, the quicker the window of opportunity closes.
Im a big fan of confrontation cos it saves on the rubbish u dont wanna hear. On this occasion i'd do some more snoopin, make friends of his friends, ask around, but then i think u relli shud ask him out and see what he does. After all the worst feeling is the feeling of the unknown.
Save yourself the anxiety of not knowning as soon as you can.
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