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Long term relationship but no sex?

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Question - (8 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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I just started dating this guy. He's amazing. He thinks I'm amazing. I can see this relationship lasting awhile. But, I'm a virgin, so is he. I don't wanna have sex for a long long time. Is it possible to have a long term relationship with someone you really care about, but not have sex. Is there any guy out there who would be in a relationship with someone and know that they aren't gonna get laid.

Please help...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010):

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Thanks for the answers everyone! I really hope he will respect my choices, but if he doesn't I guess it'll be over. So far everythings good. I just feel like I can't give him what other girls can... Okay, well thanks again! I really appreciate it :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010):

I know a couple who dated for 4 years before having sex (they waited until marriage) and they don't regret it!

So yeah it's definitely possible.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (8 June 2010):

The Realist agony auntYes its possible but both of you have to understand this and agree with it or it will never work. Also then if you do have sex later on it will not be expected, it will be based on the love you two have with out the sexual realtionship.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2010):

petina1 agony auntHi Just be honest with him from the start. If he really likes you he will do as you ask. Don't make it a massive issue though, things can always happen naturally as well if you can't resist temptation. Hope this helps.

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