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writes:I'm moving away for university next year and two of my friends are moving to the same city, though we're all going to different colleges. we agreed to live together as it would be cheaper and we'd get a better apartment that way. I started looking and found some really great flats and was starting to really get excited! then last night, one of the girls emailed me and said that they're living with two boys from our class (without me) and that I really don't get along with. So in a nutshell that means I'm stuck with no one to live with and probably nowhere to live because I won't be able to afford it. I feel so let down and upset, and its not the first time that this kinda thing has happened. How can I stop attracting people who'll let me down? and What do I do about those girls? do I stop talking to them?
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reader, Sakuracherry  +, writes (8 June 2010):
My dear
I'm so sorry that your friends did this to you. I hope that you are not close to them, because I wouldn't want friends that ditch you via email!? Why didn't they have the decency to tell you face to face?! They are just not worth your time really. You dont have to be aggro towards them but just try not to expect anything from them, from now on. Be civil n polite, and protect yourself from further letdowns. You will be the one having the last laugh, since they will have to pick up and clean up after the stinky boys hahaha! :P
Good friends are really important, especially when you are moving away from home and family support. If you do not have NICE friends in that city, i would really suggest that you try staying in the residential accomodations available from the university where there will be other students living too. I lived in a boarding school in another country and made friends for life! When i then moved to another country, i really regretted staying on my own instead of the uni residentials. Because it can get lonely and its easier to get to know other students living in the same compound. Plus, its so fun when you get to study together or hang out together when its so close by.
Here's wishing you all the best at Uni! I hope you find a great place and wonderful friends! Pls let us know how it works out :)
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