A
male
age
36-40,
*heBhudda
writes:Dear Cupid,Here’s the deal, me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 beautiful years, Both in our early 20s, Both work (although she commits more hours than me), but for the last 3 months I haven’t even seen her and its not just the visual contact that’s been on a decline. Don’t get me wrong I understand she’s busy and has other commitments we both do, but 3 months? Our phone conversations have died out to a minute and 3 of my text messages equals a reply from her. She manages to spend nights out with her friends on regular basis which I don’t mind, everyone has a social life but why is it that when I ask her for night out or even a night in I get an excuse last minute? I’ve tried talking to her about the situation, although not face to face but over the phone and she kills the conversation and I don’t want to interrogate her just want her to talk to me about it or anything on her mind. Maybe I’m showing too much affection or maybe she is genuinely busy but I just really miss her and any advice will be much appreciated, Thank you for your time.Peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): Wow 3 months is a really long time.
I have a feeling she might be cheating on you or she just doesn't have feelings for you anymore.
I use to date a guy who I saw frequently and he called me everything single day, but after that I kind of got bored with it and started to ignore his calls.
I know that may sound that I was really cruel, but the long 2 hour talks on the phone made me not love him as much as I did before.
So just stop putting you're self in so much misery and break up with her! Hope that helps (:
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