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writes:Help!Since a week or 2 I have been dating a guy and I really like him. His sister is a good friend of my best friend and she basicly set us up. He is my first boyfriend, but I don't really know if I can call him that yet(afterall, we've only been seeing each other for 2 weeks and kissed last Friday)Last Friday I asked him if he wanted to come to the theater with me, since we had a ticket too many. He said he wanted to come, but that was before I told him, with regret, that we wouldn't be alone. Far from! Not only my parents would be there, but also a good friend of my parents and there son(who are sort of my second family).He said he still wanted to come, but I just know that he doesn't really. I get that, absolutely! I would freak too. So now he is coming with us, but he is acting very cold and distant.I'm doubting whether he likes me or not and if I ask too much of him... Does anyone know what I should do? Ask again? Or let him of the hook?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 It's probably a bit much for him. He could be a bit scared wondering how the family are going to see him. You could always say, let's go and do something after the theatre, go for a take away or something, then you could evalue the night and you'll find out what he thought of it all. I'ts no good guessing. Any new boyfriend is a bit shy of the parents. Hope this helps.
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reader, matt007bond +, writes (8 June 2010):
hmm...if that was me i would want you to be honest with me.Just say to him "I`ts ok if you dont want to come because my parents are going.Come if you want,i want you to come but dont feel like i am pressuring you to."
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