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writes:I posted previously about my bf going away on his lads holiday and that I wasn't sure if I could trust him.Its all getting on top of me now. He kissed a girl on holiday a few years ago while we were together which always springs to mind whenever he goes away. On another lads holiday I found a picture of him with his hand on some girls boob that they met while away. It was humiliating. I forgave him but I've never forgotten about it. also when we were away together abroad, he got drunk, flipped out and left me in the middle of this town in the middle of the night. He couldn't remember anything about it the next day.To make me feel worse, some of his mates have gfs who I know quite well, and I know they talk to their partners regularly. There's been very limited contact, which is mostly a reply from a msg I'd have sent him. No kisses, no miss yous, no conversations.I know I sound like a mental case I've suddenly just worked myself up into this crazy person and I'm so upset but so angry that he just doesn't seem to care about me while he's away.Please guys, I hope u have something to make me feel better about all of this.:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): Hi, it sounds like you like and care for him alot more than he cares or lkes you. I know that is a hurtful thing to say but his actions prove it. As one of the previous notes said, dump him. Go out with your friends and enjoy their company, keep yourself busy, it will hurt but after a week or so of not contacting him you will feel loads better. ps delete his phone number from your phone.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 DUMP HIS ASS. Kick him to the curb. Throw him out. Reject him forcefully for good. Break up with him. Call it quits. End the relationship. Close down his sexual bank account. Impeach him from the presidency of your heart. Blow him off.
For every day you do not do this, you will be ruining your life and trashing your feelings of self-worth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): I agree with person12345.
He has done things to other girls which is not right when dating someone.
Even though your contact with him is limited, you should let him know you're feeling concerned about your relationship with him.
If he still continues to do stuff to other girls on holidays, maybe you should just break up with him, it would be the right thing instead of being worried or stressed about it. Being stressed about it can cause a lot on your body, cherish your body! :D
Hope that helps and good luck! (:
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 June 2010):
 I don't think you sound crazy. I know you came here for reassurance, but I think you do have right to be concerned. He has shown no reason that he would behave differently on this trip, has he? He's misbehaved twice while on holiday before, and once more with you there. I see no reason why not this time. The fact that his contact with you is limited is another reason to worry, since it means he hasn't been thinking about you all that much. I'm sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear. I'm not saying anything WILL happen, but I'm saying you might have reason to worry.
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