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*issymisty
writes:hi, there is this guy i really like, ive known him for a long time but never really knew each other that well i just knew him through my brother... about two years ago i was rely drunk in a club an he was there and we started kissing, after that i never really seen him or anyhting, then i was at a party about 4 months ago an he came over and kissed me an started talking about that time in the club, then we wer kissing all night and he told me he liked me. then again we never really seen each other until 3 months later at another party where we started kissing again and holding hands an stuff, i txt him in between those 3 months but never got a reply so i thought he was just ignoring me. then he told two of my mates he really liked me (and sober when he said it) two weeks later i seen him again and i made the first move this time cuz he was pretty much sober, so i think hes shy? that night we went back to mine and we had sex, he left quite early in the morning and it sorta felt like he was running away, he kissed me as he left but seemed a bit awkward about it... two days later i seen him wen we both sober and i looked over an he was lookin at me an smiled and said hello, and he did chat to me quite a lot but never kissed me or spoke about that night... have i ruined it by sleeping with him to soon??? please help... i only realised yesterday tho that the only reason he never txt back is because i had the two end digits of his number mixed up :s, someone please answer this for me, im not sure wat to think
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reader, missymisty +, writes (12 June 2010):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionna i asked about that lol cuz it wudn be the first time thats happened to me, he dont have a girlfriend thats definet x
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reader, petina1 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 There could be another reason why he's blowing hot and cold, maybe he has a girlfriend whom you don't know about.
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reader, missymisty +, writes (11 June 2010):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea i no i jus think it makes it worse, thats wat im worried about... i didnt just meet him tho ive known him for ages an he told other people he likes me, this is what i dont understand
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 June 2010):
Im glad you are seeing this for what it is. Sex is good if both of you feel the same way, thats special. Too many people think if they have sex with someone they've just met, that person will like them more, it's not true. If it's one sided it can never ever work.
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reader, missymisty +, writes (8 June 2010):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks petinal, thats what i thought that he dont really seem interested cuz i decided to jus cut him off a while ago and then my mates where telling me that hes been saying he really likes me to them hes jus a tad worried about my brother... so obviusly it got my hopes up an high then i seen him the week after an thts wen we slept together, yes i wil try not to jus jump into bed with him if i see him again cuz i got his PROPER number yesterday an iv txt an no reply this is now 4 hours later... and talklove some people say sex ruins it but i relly dont no :( i like him sooo much and thought he was different cuz ive been messed about so much and now its jus come to a point i want to break down and cry i duno wat to think, i always expect the worse so maybe we shud stay positive :) an good things mite happen... funny thing is i never liked him at first hes the one that kept coming on to me and making me like him, i duno i jus hope somit good happens for once and hopes hes not txtin bk due to credit, im not chasing anymore tho
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reader, talklove  +, writes (8 June 2010):
Oh, honey I'm having the same thing here too. It was my birthday and there was this realy cute guy I met the week before my birthday. I was a little bit drunk. And because I didn't have a stable relationship for wuite a while, I needed to feel man next to me, you know. And so he offered to go to a hotel to end the celebration there, I went with him. We obviously had sex. But then in the morning, I started to get to know him better, and then I realisedm that we could've been in a relationship, we were perfect for each other. And so he went to sleep, I left. A week pasted by and I tried to phone him, but he never returned. The next time I saw him, was at the same party, we greeted each other, like as if nothing happened between each other. And now I'm thinking the same thing as you, did I ruin it with sex? There have been lot's of cases where, couples got together after their 'one night stand' and some even got married in the end.
I can say one thing, that you and I need to just hope for the best. Believe in that everything is going to be alright.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (8 June 2010):
He isnt that bothered by the sounds of it. It doesnt look like he wants to make an effort. I wouldnt bother with him again, find someone who wants to see you more and takes time out to make you feel special. He may only want to know you because you are there and he knows you like him. If you do see him again, don't have sex with him. Make him work for the pleasure of your company. Hope this helps.
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