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anonymous
writes:Im 16. Not had sex before. But have had oral sex. Am seeing a really nice girl who i met on holiday at the moment. Shes had sex, she knows i havent, i feel she could be the one. The only thing is, i keep making up excuses why not to have sex because ive got it stuck in my head that i might be bisexual. I'm not attracted to men and never have, but it's been in the back of my mind, i've never had a proper relationship, really nervous about sex, and i keep thinking that if i have sex, it'll determine if im bisexual or gay or striaght or whatever. But i deep down i know that im straight, as i dont have any problem with getting aroused by a girl. But this thing has been going round in my head. Has anyone had any same experiences or worrying about first time sex?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Look you are only 16 - what you are experiencing is normal. Leave bisexual out of the equation - you are making yourself crazy with this thinking. You are nervous because this girl has more experience than you do and you are only 16! It's as simple as that. Calm down and slow down. Don't be in such a rush. Do you even have a relationship with this girl?
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