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anonymous
writes:I dated a guy for a month in hopes to get over my ex of almost a year. After me and the guy broke up he started coming over to see me and we began to "mess around" this has been going on since 10 months and last night we finally did it. Is this wrong? Were not even dating but he was my 1st.. what do you think?
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reader, missyxox  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 No, of course it isn't. Sure, lots of people are dating when they have their first time, but many aren't. As long as you don't regret it and were treated with respect, there's nothing wrong about it at all :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): Just one time, maybe not, but if it continues without being in a relationship, your cheapening yourself for sex. You're giving the guy the message that it's "okay" to use you. You don't want to set that pattern. Keep your communication up, you two need to be honesr and clear with each other.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (8 June 2010):
 This is a question that only you can answer, dear. Is it wrong? Does it feel wrong to you? It doesn't matter what we think..its what YOU think. You have to live with what you have done..not us. So if you feel it was wrong, ok..maybe it was wrong for YOU..at this particular time. If you don't feel its wrong..well..ok, then it wasn't!
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