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writes:Ok well this is kinda really driving me insane lolIm 17 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now.. i love him very much i used to think he felt the same until HE CHEETED ON ME! he addmited it to my face cause i caught him, i was heartbroken but i desided i would forget about it and if it ever happend again tht would be it us over, this guy has no idea how much i love him, and the thing is i really really wanna be able to trust him again but i cant! its so hard everytimes hes not with me i just keep thinking hes with another girl or when he dnt txt me bak i think hes with some1 when half the time he says hes to busy at work to reply when he goes out i cant help but think hes doing it aswell only becasue he said " One night stands are ok " but then he said it was a joke! he tells me he loves me more than anything in this world and regrets everything he done it was a mistake and everything, i said it couldnt b a mistake cause hes a muslim so its not like he was drunk or something, this is 29 years old and ive falling for him soo much hes actually stolen my heart! ive nearly lost friends and everything because i wanna be with him alot. i just need some tips so he relises what hes done and i want him 2 think im acting diffrent for a change! but i just cant help but txt him all the time, i really dont know whats the matter with me but im just paranoid he does it again. How can i get over this and start trusting him again??Please please help its driving me mad!! Thanks :) x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 June 2010):
HE WILL DO IT AGAIN. Wake up. I'm a man, and I know how men think. What do you want us to say? That he's a great guy who cares? That he will turn into a knight? You ask for advice, so when we give it to you, you don't like. Well that's just bad luck. If you want to be treated like crap by him, fine by me. You're losing friends, you're losing dignity, you're losing self respect by standing up for a man who doesn't care. There are no tips to make it better. He's even basically admitted he will do it again. But, if you want to go back, then just walk up to him and tell him that you forgive him and get on with it. When you ask for advice, don't get huffy with the answers. Or you won't get any at all and you'll look stupid when it goes wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif your nt gonna give me tips i want dnt answer its pisssed me off sayin he will do it againn
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 June 2010):
Sure you can leave. Do you think he loves you? Do you think he cares for you? No,not at all. He cheated, and will continue to cheat.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (8 June 2010):
 He says 'one night stands are okay'... I'll bet he doesnt want you to have one though. You will go through life and learn lessons the hard way. No one will be able to tell you what to do, but you will look back on all our advice and say ' You were all right'. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wish i could leave him but i cant.. i love him 2 much :(!x
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reader, lynn1977  +, writes (8 June 2010):
Once a cheater always a cheater. You two have a big age gap between you two! You are doing all the work and it sounds one sided. You deserve better than that! Aren't you tired of being paranoid! I know you love him but you need to love yourself more. Do not call or text him and if he cares he will come.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 June 2010):
You're being used, and you're not doing what needs to be done. No matter what he says, or what you say, you're just being used. Then best thing you can do is move on.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (8 June 2010):
There is a big age gap. You can't trust him. You are doing all the running/texting. I don't think personally that it is going anywhere. He will probably cheat again. You can't live your life not trusting and hurting all the time wondering what he's doing, it's not good for you, it will destroy you. At the end of the day you will find out the hard way because you are young and he sounds like a player. Hope this helps.
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