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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok so around 3 years ago i met a guy fell madly in love he was my first love, he had only been single 6 months previous to getting with me he was with his ex for 4 years. he stayed friends with her throughout our relationship and she started causing complications which led to us splitting after 8 months. For about a year after i'll admit he messed with my feelings we'd meet up but he wouldn't get back with me. i've had no solid communication with him for a year and a half but my good friend had got a job at my exes work and mentioned he knew me as my friend was aware we used to see each other. He has moved on been with his girlfriend over a year but messaged me a few months back and then i messaged him not so long ago he replied general chat thing is i can't move on its so hard i want him in my life and it must mean something if he replies to me. help!
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reader, Empressjai +, writes (8 June 2010):
 What it means when he answered back was that he wanted to see if you were ok, that's as deep as it gets. He has a gf and has clearly moved on. The thing is youre the one that is fixated on wanting him back bcos you say he was your first love. you need to move on bcos there are going to be other loves for you to meet. Stop analysing his message it means nothing. Focus on moving on and meeting other people bcos you will only hurt yourself more by wanting a man that doesnt want you back.
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