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writes:I need some friendship advice. My friend spends all her time with her boyfriend, and a lot of friends are getting mad at her for it. Yet, I tould her I wanted her to be happy, yet I still want to feel like we both are putting in effort to our friendship. Well we had some issues but we sorta worked them out and we started over... Yet I still feel like I am doing all the work in our friendship.What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Empressjai  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 That's because you are doing all of the work in your friendship. Your friend doesn't value your friendship like she does her relationship with her bf. She drops her friends for some guy and treats you like crap. Her energy is going into her relationship not your friendship and you feel that intuitively. Why hang around or be friends with such a self-centred and selfish person anyway. You need to find yourself a new friend one that values and cares about you and not just some guy. Watch what happens if her relationship doesn't last then she will want the support of her friends but she may find that she has none.
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