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41-50,
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writes: My friend's boyfriend had put interested in women on his facebook page and I thought that he meant like he wanted to meet other women- he had prior to that interested in men and women and said he was single on there- I misunderstood and told my friend via text and voicemail. She is already not happy that he is on facebook. Last night his whole facebook page was wiped out and there was just his profile picture with a picture of his dog and not him. Did they get into a fight about it and then he erased it because of the fight? I feel like if so I caused the problem then and now I am worried that my friend is mad at me. He did have single on there before though and they have been together for almost 2 years. Can you help?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (9 June 2010):
The question that really begs to be asked here is this: Why did you feel the need to contact her via voice mail and text about his status? Sure she's mad most likely at both of you and I am sure he pissed at you as well. You did not misunderstand anything Missy - you butted in is what you did. Grow up and get your own relationships - and stop with the FaceBook stalking.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 June 2010):
Well, it sounds like there are problems in that relationship already. It could just be that you were the final straw, so to speak. If I were you, I'd say well out of it from now. I don;t think your friend is mad you at. I think she's mad at him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): It's just facebook to some people, not everyone wants to publicise every single thing in their life so there is a good chance he didn't want to brag or whatever by updating his facebook.
I think you jumped to the gun a bit too quickly, how could we possibly know if they're mad, I guess they both have a right to be.... Ask her.
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