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writes:i actually have two questions. one is im 17 gonna be 18 in september 5 and my girlfreind is 15 gonna be 16 on september 1is there anything wrong with us being together even with the age difference? like honestly where i live its legal even if we did decide to have sex (we decided not to have sex untill we are married) but people still seem to think its wrong. i love her and i cant stop thinking about her plz help. thnx :). next is we lay down together when were at my one friends house and i started to rub up on her in a joking way this is normal for us but i later found out that shes never been horny before. im not sure if theres anything wrong with her or me or what. she thinks somthing is wrong with her because of her never getting horny. and now it really doesnt help that i get horny around her. plz help
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reader, Dekten  +, writes (8 June 2010):
The age difference isn't a problem, IMO.
You can wait with the sex stuff for a bit, though. No need to rush it.
You can of course pressure her into it, but it'll drive her away for sure. Probably not what you want.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (8 June 2010):
 The age difference is fine, so don't worry about that!
As for the horniness factor, I know that when I get "rubbed up against" like you mentioned, it reminds me of a dog dry humping another dog and actually puts me off.
If you want to work on your girlfriends horniness, you don't want to use her body to increase YOUR horniness. You want to do things to turn HER on. Massages, strong hugs, kissing (I'm talking about the slow kissing, not the kind that lasts 10 seconds before you're groping her), backrubs, ankle rubs, foot massages, kissing her neck, teasing her (not just going for her breasts/butt right off the back)...you can turn her on. You just have to be devoted to the right technique, and lay off the grinding against her until she's ALREADY turned on.
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reader, tonydsd  +, writes (8 June 2010):
Well firstly theres a smi rule where you take your age, divide it by 2 and add 7. for example 18/2= 9+7= 16.
But i dont think the age difference is bad at all so dont worry about that.
Secondly, girls take a bit longer to mature, thats a fact of nature, so theres no rushing that. So dont worry about the second issue, give her time and she'l see the so called "darker realms" if you know what i mean.
Basicaly dont worry about both issues. :D
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