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writes:My bf keeps wanting to go far butvi just laugh it off what should I do? I mean he's a great kisser and super sweet and lots of fun but I don't want him to go that far with me we r still in jr high :/
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reader, alone21  +, writes (9 June 2010):
hey toots! im closer to your age so i understand where your comming from (im 18) when i was in junior high i met this cute guy who i thought was amazing. it was awsome the first time we held hands, then even better after the first kiss, but then he wanted to go a little further. i knew it was wrong and i didnt want to at first but every body was doing it! so i figured i was missing out. and just had to get my peice of the pie. it wasnt as magical as everyone said it would be. infact it hurt. bad. even though i thought i loved him and he was the guy and i figured we'd always be together. we broke up last year after dating 5 years! and honestly i havent talked to him for about half a year now. my point is i thought it was ok then, and that was was the guy to do it with and that even though i wasnt ready yet i did it anyway. and now im a little older and on to bigger and better things like starting my life. for starters i have my own place i have a fiance and when i told him that he wasnt my first i could tell it broke his heart since i was his. some things are better left alone until your ready, and your KNOW that wahat you really want.
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reader, samyum  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 Let me ask you this question...what would you do if your bestest g/f asked you to lie on the train tracks with her and both get run over by a train?
Im assuming you would say to her something like I love you to bits but really ...is this necessary...I love you but I just cant..
Im lot older than you so I can speak from experience ,dont do what you dont want to do you have a choice ...sex is a special thing to share with someone is he really that special ..just yet ...if he really likes you he will RESPECT you and your feelings.Good luck and remember YOU have the choice to choose when you want to do something special.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 Say no. If he can't accept it, show him the door.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): Hi dear
Darling don't let him force you to do something you don't want then if does not want to listen to you then he's definetely not the right guy for you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 June 2010):
You stop him. You make it clear that you're not ready. And if he doesn't listen and respect that, then he's not that great a guy.
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