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writes:Hi everyone,I posted on the forum about this, but I did not get any responses yet, so I guess maybe this is a better place to post. I was wondering what your opinions are on having sex early in a relationship versus waiting until later? How do you feel that it affects the relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): I usually wait 3-4 dates. Yes, I have done it on the first or second date but I find that they are less successful. Waiting longer is the better way to go because it gives you both time to get to know each other on a psychological level instead of on a physical level. Truthfully, what I have heard from my guy friends and even my current boyfriend that if the girl kisses or sleeps with the guy on the first date, that means she could be a hussy and there's no point in making anything out it besides a one night stand. So the more you hold out, the more the guy will appreciate you, and the more special it'll be for the both of you in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): i've had sex on first date and made boyfriends wait 1 - 3 years to have sex ... over all, i did what i was comfortable with and holding out has helped to weed out the ones not worthy of my time. Wish i'd not had sex on a first date cos that only resulted in being a one night stand with no relationship formed, it left me heartbroken and confidence bruised. Waiting for me is better, i get to know the person rather than just their physical body. Explore mind and soul frist, body can come later. Though i have known people who were committed friends, had sex one random night and were a couple for years after.
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