A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm 21 years old. my girlfriend proposed me 3 months ago. so we are in relationship from last 3 months. she always says that she loves me a lot. i also love her a lot but she never talks much with me on the phone. she never messages me and never gives reply to my messages. when i ask her to go out with me then she refuses giving excuse but when her friends ask her to go out she agrees quickly.Recently she went for a holiday for about a month and she didnt call me at all. I used to message her at the same time but she doesnt even care about it. she showed this kind of behaviour 3-4 times. she always sto me that she wont do the mistake again but she did it again and again. also whenever i call her she tells me that her mother is calling, she has to go and keeps the phone. what exactly is going in her mind? i asked her if she wants to quit the relationship she says no. but i want to know the truth. i really cant live without her but she never shows her feeling like i do. she rarely talks to me. does that mean 'she dont want me?'please help me... please... i am in deep pain.. i cant bare this...please help me Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Miamine +, writes (9 June 2010):
Maybe she is selfish.. she could love you, but be so interested in herself and what she is doing she never thinks of you when she's away..
It's not a good sign, you need to talk to her and tell her you feel ignored, rejected and left out.
|