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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 years now and im now 16 so we have grown up together and recently we have just argued constantly and my boyfriend is just a year younger so i have just left school and now its harder because we hardly see each other everyone says i can do so much better than him and i should just leave but i really dont want to hes like my best friend and my boyfriend and im always lost without him. i find it so hard he doesnt ring me anymore if anything its facebook! and now i have deleted him off that because all i do is want to know if hes online we meet now and again but even that has stopped i told how much i cared and rote him a massive essay he just said we needed to sort it out and then changed the conversation he doesnt show me how much he loves me anymore he doesnt hardly talk to me. he pretends he doesnt care well im biggining to wonder if he really doesnt care. i know hes been texting this other girl and he told me he tried to move on but he cant well what am i sopposed to do he treats me like crap and ignores me untill he wants me and i put up with all this shit because i care. sometimes i wunder why i bovar but i cant help it either way.
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reader, alone21  +, writes (9 June 2010):
leave him he's obviously moved on. im not saying its the same situation with you but i dated a guy for 5 years also and he was my best friend we thought we'd get married have a million kids the whole bit. then my mom sent me away to live with my grandma 4 hours away and it all fell apart. but not because of him. i thought i wanted something else. its been a year since ive been with him and im with some one else now. but there isnt a day that goes by that i wish i hadnt done what i did. because it took loosing him to realize just how much i loved him and how stupid it was to give up 5 years for nothing. but by the time i realized that it was to late. now hes moved on and wont even talk to me anymore. but i guess i deserve it. i just wish i could stop loving him as easy as he did. best of luck!
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