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writes:Okay, so a little background: My friend met this kid -lets say his name is Noah, two nights ago. They didnt talk much, but did exchange numbers. He called her yesterday and asked her if she (and friends) was up for anything that night. We were supposed to go to a concert but it didnt work out so we went bar-hopping instead. Cut to the chase, I had obviously been drinking when we finally met up with him. He was gorgeous and lovely. My friend was at the bar and Noah and I were just chilling and drinking on the somewhat dance floor and ended up hooking up. Nothing past second, but had his friend not called him to say they were leaving when we were outside making out, I have a funny feeling we'd have gone home together or whatever.Point being, I feel bad about it cause I feel as if he was her territory. When we sitting outside, he asked if my friend would be angry we were doing this. What does that mean?! I sort of want to know if he said anything about me to her.. I also feel like I should apologize no? We usually dont talk about these types of things, like guys, etc. so I have no idea how to phrase it.. How should I go about asking her about this or talking to her about it. I know its not a big deal, it happens a lot, I just want to make sure everything is cool between us. Reply to this Question
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reader, makenzie  +, writes (9 June 2010):
Ok so your friend met this guy and exchanged phone numbers, but thats it. Its not like he was her boyfriend and its not like anything had happend between them.
So just come clean tell her, you were drunk and you and 'Noah' made out, but thats all, nothing serious. Its was a mistake and you didnt mean it to happen.
Friends are more important than any boy, so its best she hear from you, not somone else.
And just remember honesty is the best pollisy.
Good luck :)
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