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30-35,
*ames Hetfield
writes:Dear cupid, I have met a girl through Orkut and fell in love with her.She also loves me but we havent met yet and she resides in some other city.We usually sms each other or call.I really love her and i think she also does love me the same but she is bit tilted towards horoscopes and she was predicted by some people that she will be having an arranged marriage.Because of this she is being a bit pessimistic and our relationship is being spoiled.I need your help to solve this problem because i really love her and we both want to marry each other.Please help cupid as i am very much distracted from my studies due to these problems. Please help me as soon as possible. Thank you!
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reader, James Hetfield +, writes (10 June 2010):
James Hetfield is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for your answer friend!It really helped me to sort out certain tangible issues.Thanks a lot!!!
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (7 June 2010):
You don't love her. You can't love someone you haven't even met. But that aside, it is obvious you are really in to her.
Stop thinking marriage and love and be a little more realistic. The first thing you need to do is meet up, and see how you get on together in real life.
Take things slowly from this point, and if you enjoy seeing each other you will naturally develop a relationship.
And if things don't work out, if this girl is not the one for you, there will be other girls in the future that will come along and will be more suited for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): Dear Writer,
I fell in love with my boyfriend when we were seperated by thousands of miles in distance. I lived in Florida and he in New York and I can tell you, figuring it out is the hardest part. The best advice I can give you is to take it one step at a time. Forget marraige- Are you ready to live together? Are you ready to be a team effort for each others goals? Can you conquer any project together(e.g. Remodeling the kitchen or building an old car together)? It has so amazing to see our compatibility in action but don't feel the need to rush. If your feet are hot then put plans forth to make it work. Are you willing to move? Is she? What decision is most intelligent for both of you and your given situations in life?-because we all have them. Just take it easy tiger and remember that love isnt about marraige. Commiting in small ways first will benefit both of you for now and prepare you for bigger decisions-such as marraige.
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