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writes:I recently started dating my best friend but we broke up. During the break up he sat holding me and saying how he didn't want to lose me but he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, he also kissed my cheek.He said he still liked me in that way but he told my friend that he doesnt... however I know that if he'd had told this friend of mine that he did still like me she would have told me and he knows it and if I didn't feel the same way he thinks I'd avoid him, but I do love him. However there is a rumour going round that he fancies someone and he denys that its me.Also recently he's been his nickname for me with another girl and saying things that I thought were OUR thing. Its shattering...I just want to know how to win him back. I love him so much but I cant think anything to do. He's different from other guys I've met, he acctually understands me and I thought he cared for me when no one else did. I want to win him back but I dont really want to play hard to get because we're friends and I can't bring myself to deprive myself of him no matter how long.I'm going out to a rowing competition/ summer fair with him on saturday and a couple of mutual friends... is there anything I can do to win him back?
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reader, inspired22  +, writes (9 June 2010):
best way I believe to win someone back is leave them alone for a while (and Believe me I know thats almost impossible)
fix things about yourself ...be confident and just worry about you...my guy friends have said it makes them wonder about a girl when they see how well they are doing with out them...
if he really loves you he will come back ...
but maybe by then youll be strong enough to see that Your amazing and he shouldnt have left you.. its his lose sweetie. Anyhone who cant see the beauty you hold, doesnt deserve another chance..ppl should play games with ppls emotions.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 June 2010):
You can't win him back, I'm afraid. He's made it clear that he's not ready for a relationship. That either means he's not ready, or that he fancies someone else. No matter how hard, retain your dignity and move on. You don't want to look like a desperate ex.
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