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writes:hello, i think i am in love with my fiancee's cousin, she is 8 years younger then me but very mature for her age, me and her are into the same kind of music, tv, movies ect. and over the past year we have become really close we talk a lot online and text each other a lot and sometimes we get into really deep coversations about how she is and things becuase she has just got over her depression and i always want to make sure she is all right, sometimes i get the impression that she likes me too. We went out the other day to the cinema and then to a meal (it was my idea) but after i felt bad as if i had been cheating on my fiancee even though nothing went on between us. but the thing is i dont even think i want to be with my fiancee anymore i want to be with her cousin and i know this sounds really bad but she is all i can think about at the moment and i think my fiancee is starting to notice, i dont want to hurt her but i dont think i want to be with her anymore what shall i do? i am so confused please help thank you xx
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reader, Sir-T +, writes (8 June 2010):
You did say she was recovering from depression... you will end up sending her back to square 1 if you do not fix ur head back in line. If it was a random girl it would have been fine but with the same family, everyone will turn on this girl and make her look like the devil or ban her from seeing you thereby making her life difficult.This same thing happened to me some time back, my gf introduced her younger friend to me who was dealing with depression and i completely started to fall head over... luckily mine didn't go bad... i decided to forget about her and focused on my gf... dont let urs go bad, u'll hate urself at the end of the day... fix things right
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