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writes:I was with this guy for 3 years from the age of 14 until I turned 18 we were happy and he did everything for me he was amazing, I then realised I needed to get out there and experience new things, I then left him for one of his best friends. It's been 3 months and I regret it so much I really want him back and he said he wants me back and he is prepared to take me back, but I cant do that to this other guy can I? everyone will think I am stupid....
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 You have to get your act together and stop jumping from man to man. You've been in a relationship since you were 14 and I suspect you are afraid of being alone or don't know how to function if you don't have a boyfriend. You broke up with your ex because you wanted to experience new things...how about trying "single girl" as a new experience?
Think of it this way: you left your boyfriend of 3 years for his best friend; do you honestly thing things are going to be the same between you?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 June 2010):
 You shouldn't date at all. You're too flighty, and your actions are hurting these guys. Sorry, but for now, you need to grow up some. Have some casual flings, but do not commit to someone unless you're ready to stick it out and no longer have a roving eye whenever you get bored.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 June 2010):
I would strongly suggest not dating anymore guys. Just have your fun. You know what will happen. You'll get back, and then another guy will come along and you'll be off again. Have your fun with new men. Forget the old ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): no not " stupid" be more concerned that you are moving from best friend to best friend and back. sleeping with 2 best friends, not good! then moving back to the 1st one. problems here. instead of cheating on your now bf with your previous bf why not just take a break from dating. I know this is just so hard to comprehend but trying learning to get to know yourself and finding out what you are all about instead of running from one mans bed to another. are these 2 best friends still?
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