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He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?

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Question - (16 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2010)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first place, and to see each other real soon. Im trying to figure out what have i done wrong, but then again, why should i care so much. he is my ex and i am his.

any thoughts?.

thanks

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A female reader, truelondoner United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

truelondoner agony auntwell mabey, deep down u still have slight feelings for him because even when you break up with someone u might not love eachother as in bf and gf but u still love him as a friend! this is why you still care about him, because u have also been cose to him in the past :)

hope this helps please rate my answer, thankyou

good luck xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010):

Leave him alone. I know he was there for you in the past but he's not your therapist anymore.

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntI know how this feels, dont fret to much about it, let the break up settle down, you may want to talk t him, but its best for both parties just to not speak for a while, by that time, you may not even care about talking to each other. I hope i helped you :)

feel free to message me if u want someone to talk to :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

I don't think you have done anything wrong. I just think that he said what he did to try and make the break up easier. I think you'd be better off just leaving him in the past.

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