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writes:3 days ago I told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like talking to anyone or dealing with anything without bitching and he said okay I won't talk to you. I was having a really hard time cause my period was late and I was stressing out cause of school and being around him just made things worse.Now I'm avoiding him which is the guy's way of saying things are over but I'm not a guy and I don't think he gets the gist that I'm tired of him.So how do I break up with him cause he's a sweet guy but this is so not gonna work.
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reader, truelondoner  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 well you should never go out with someone who you are uncomfortable with or do not have feelings for, he is going to find out sooner or later so you should tell him your self before he finds out before anyone else. at the end of the day you have to think about your self. you come 1st!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): I agree with caring guy if your gonan break up with him you have to really let him go or he will be confused and think you want to make it work again im not saying no contact but dont show any feelings of wanting to be with him at all.
and the the best way is to just say its not working for you hes a nice guy but you dont feel the same or dont see it going anywhere. Theres no way to drop little hints guy dont get those they have to be told so you gotta just tell him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
I'm afraid you just have to be honest with him. There's no easy way to say it's over, all you can do is say it. Take him aside, sit him down and tell him that there is a lot going on in your life and that this won't work out at the moment. He will be hurt, but if you do this and then give him lots of space, he'll get over it.
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