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What music to heal my pain?

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Question - (16 January 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years.

Can anyone recommend any songs that I can listen to to help with the pain? My music collection is pretty small.

I'm feeling hurt angry sad jealous, and the rest and i think music is a great healer but im not sure what songs to look for.

Thanks everyone.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

AskEve agony auntBreak ups are never easy, especially for the one being dumped. You need to listen to "feel good" songs, something to make you feel positive again and NOT to sit and reminisce to soppy love songs. A couple of my favourites are "Now I can Dance" by Tina Arena and "Having a Good Time" by Queen. Play them on youtube.

~Eve~

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010):

i find listening to Michael Jackson songs help me alot, his lyrics are very personal aswell,and yu can really relate to them aswell

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (16 January 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntIt's about a guy in a similar situation... but please don't do what this guy did... the lyrics are a tad vindictive.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (16 January 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony aunt"LA County" by Lyle Lovette cracks me up.

I know your situation is not funny, but a little humour helps.

I clarify that I AM NOT suggesting that you do what the guy in the song does!!!!

This guy, if you haven't heard of him, is VERY disturbed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010):

i hear ya! am in the same situation right now. but it all depends on the music, but however am just gonna give a mix of some of what u can here so try these.

1. Boyz 2 men- end of the road

2. justin timberlake- what goes around comes around

3. all american rejects- gives u hell

4. rise against- savior

5. paramore- missery business

6. linkin park- in the end, numb

i think i gave u more of the ones u can heal to becuz i belive thats what u need. Good luck!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010):

Google these words "songs about being dumped."

Listen to them on youtube.

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A female reader, Brooklyngirl United States +, writes (16 January 2010):

Brooklyngirl agony auntIf you are wanting to get over her...you should be going in the other direction! No Sappy love songs! Nothing to make you cry in your beer!

Good old Rock & Roll. The faster and louder the better! Songs that will make you feel happy and want to party!

...I know, I have had some practice in this area!!!

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A female reader, truelondoner United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

truelondoner agony auntif u are looking for breakup songs i have a mixed collection for you:

chipmunk- oopydaisy

ne-yo - so sick

alica keys- dosnt mean anything (more of a girl song)

justin timberlake - cry me a river

jls - beat again

hope theese helps please can u rate my answer :)

x

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A female reader, Lyra Anna Croatia +, writes (16 January 2010):

Lyra Anna agony auntA lonely september - Plain White Ts

Sunlight - Plain White Ts * (this is the best)

One - U2

Costello Whistle For The Choir - The Fratellis

Un'altra te - Eros Ramazzotti

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