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*immothy16
writes:my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when we happen to be on the computer at the same time she would chat with me. the only way we talk is if she calls me or texts me or chat with me. i go the whole day without tryin to talk with her because i dont want to bother her. because remember she asked for the break, and basically im giving her the space she asked for. but she kind of gets mad or worried when i haven't called her. the whole reason we're on a break is because sometimes she gets fed up with me feels like she needs some space or to not be bothered with me at times. now when im actually leaving her alone, she gets kind of winey wonders why. kind of like she wants me to worry about her all day and keep calling her so she could be like, "aww he misses me". i mean, i do, but im not going to keep calling her when she's the one that said she was getting fed up with me sometimes and she needed her space and i could understand that. So what im trying to ask is that, we really love each other like til death, im just krazy in love with each other, i treat her good, i've been there for her and will always be, and she even says im the only person who she could tell very embarrassing things to because im just the most understanding person in the world to her, she says she only wants to be with me and i told her the same thing about her. she also say no one has ever treated her the way i do, and she wouldnt know what to do without me. so what i want to know is how can i tell if she's missing me and really wants to be with me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2010):
I could be she is missing you or it could be she's just playing with you, but I think she's being entirely silly about all this. I think you need to have a real talk together and talk to her again. The whole point of a break is you spend time apart to think about you want. She seems to be stringing you alone a bit, so you need to talk to her. Ask her where she sees all this going, and ask her to open up to you and tell you how the relationship can change. If she doesn't open up, and continues to moan when you're supposed to be on a break, then you'd be better ending it because she'd just be playing with you. Have a serious talk.
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