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*ayleighcouture
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and when we first started dating i made big life changes for him; i gave up smoking tobacco and weed, i changed friend groups, i started eating etc. for the simple reason that he wanted me to. now, just over 1year on hes started smoking both tobacco and weed and when i ask him to stop or cut down, he gets really pissed. does this show he doesnt love me? i love him to bits but i dont know how to resolve this problem. please please please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Brooklyngirl  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I totally agree with Caringguy! I think as women, we are always more willing to change things our guys don't like! You are to be congratulated for your life changes....don't let him drag you back down!Good Luck!~BG~
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
You can't. Well done for quitting weed and smoking, because in the future you'll feel far better about yourself. You sound like you've made some really positive changes in your life, for the better. So don't give them up. Your boyfriend, however, is entirely unworthy of you if he's gone down this route. The worst thing is when you ask him, he just gets angry. And that really says it all. There is only one way to resolve this problem, and that's to dump him. You had the decency to change your unhealthy habits for him. If he can't for you, then he's not worthy of you.
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