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Sex isn't great with him, how to spice it up?

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Question - (16 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi guys,

ok so here's the thing me and my bf have been having sex for a while now and have done it a fair few times, though not millions!!!

But it doesn't feel as good as I think it should for me.

I mean yeh it feels ok but not as amazing as I have heard.

Can anyone help and give me any tips that possibly I could tell my bf that could make me feel better and get the most out of the experience?

Thank you

Any help will be much appreciated.

Please help!

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (17 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntYes-sex is great, but on certain condition only.

First, you recognized correctly that 'SEX IS PLAY, AND IT HAS MOST DEFINITE 'GAME POINT'

If you go straight toward intercourse, then such sex will not feel as great, and will not transform your being in to heavenly being, as you have read or seen in pictures. right?

You should learn first the 'game point', it create with some form of resistance. You both should decide not to have ejaculation during your several love making event. And, at the same time you should do all exciting thing that bring 'ejaculation.' And, you should work to stop that ejaculation also. Come close to end point of ejaculation, stand still like rock, and make it a game point. Do this always in your love making. These game point will make your life like heaven.

Ask your male friend not go for ejaculation by masturbation alone, and promise him that you will do this for him.

If you wan more guidance on this game, then feel free to write me private male, I will clarify your confusion if you have.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

You need to explore yourself, so you know what you like and what you don't. Every woman is different, and though your boyfriend is probably trying his best, he needs to know what you like, and the only way to know that is for you to explore. I think you should tell your boyfriend that you'd like to spend more time exploring each other. He'll be up for that. But don't expect him to suddenly hit the spot, because until you know what you like, he won't know either.

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