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writes:hey, i just wanna know what people would do if they were in this situation!?ok so me and my bf have been together for 8 months now and my parents dont know about it! They know him and have met him as my friend but lately they ha`ve told me im not allowed to talk to him or have him as a friend no more! and i dont no why.the thing is i love him and dont wanna lose him at all! so i have no idea what to do.. any ideas? thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 I would ask them why they're forbidding you to see him, maybe there's a trait they see in him they don't like, or feel he's disrespectful, or maybe they have caught on that you two like each other and that's why they want you to stay apart. it's hard to say but when you talk to them and figure out why they're not into him, and maybe you'll be able to use that information to prove them wrong, that he is a good guy and someone worthy of your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes not a different age to me .. we are both 16.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (17 January 2010):
how old is this friend/ bf? maybe that's a source of concern.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
Unless the give you a reason, then you have every right to say that you can't dump him. They have to give you a reason, end of. You can't just be expected to get rid of him. But do listen to what they say. Perhaps they have found out that you're his girlfriend and they're worried about it. But ask for a reason, and say unless they give you one, you'll continue to see him, even if they ban you. You deserve a reason.
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