A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i met a girl online, and we talked for about a week or so and everything was going good! it was easy to talk to her, she was funny, and we had a good time, we then decided to plan on a first date, which she came down for the night, we had alot of fun, laughed all night, i kissed her goodnight.She told me that she had a really good time, that she wants to hang out again, and that im cute and a lot of fun, it sounds to me that this might go further than just a couple dates. My question to all of you is when should i mention to her about being exclusive and officially being in a relationship with her, or should i not say anything about it and let it just happen? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 Whenever a guy pops this question, a girl would lose interest. I don't like cute guys, I like them manly and dominant. Come on let's face it, we are all horny animals. Whether you choose to have sex before marriage does not matter. Girls are like cats, wave a little treat in front of them and have them come back for more. That's how you make a woman want you.
By the way, I am a 29 year old mom. I like guys who are sensualists, sensitive, bold,calm and in control of themselves.
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2010):
It's a bit too soon just yet. Slow down a bit more, get to know her and see what happens. But don't say anything yet, it's still too soon.
...............................
A
female
reader, lifeiswierd +, writes (16 January 2010):
don't mention it yet! it's too soon.. move a littler slower, things tend to end sooner when you rush them.. obviously. i'd just wait and let it happen.
...............................
|
