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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special. He would ring and text me all the time but he then pressured into sex.. and i gave in and I regret it and hate myself SO much. He didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not.. it was tuesday and i dont think hes ever gunna call cos it is now friday night and no word from him.He told me to text him, that he'd call me back.. but he hasnt.. i guess he will never call: arghh.. i cant sleep:( i really hate myself right now: what lesson can I learn from all of this?(thnx..xx
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 The lesson you can learn is not to do that again to yourself. No matter what excuse he may eventually give, trust me it's BS, if I guys sleeps with you for the first time and then doesn't call for 3 or more days, he's not into you! Im sorry this happened, it's a mistake a lot of women make.
Fact is, if a guy is pressuring you into sex, he doesn't love you. And if emotionally you are not ready to possibly be hurt really bad, than don't sleep with someone.
It's not fair that people treat others like this, but sadly they exist. The best you can do is live by the golden rule: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
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reader, gurunikki +, writes (17 January 2010):
what you need to learn from this is that you should never ever give in to pressure to have sex because if someone cared for you they would never pressurise you into anything. dont feel guilty or hate yourself about this, we all make mistakes huni( i have had this happen to me, your not the first and you certainly wont be the last). in future, make sure you get to know someone properly before you sleep with them. if you need anymore advise, feel free to message me.
nikki x
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