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writes:I have known this guy for over 3 years now. At the beginning he was going out with this girl and they were together for 3 years. I liked him for like a year and then him and his girlfriend broke up. The year I liked him was their third year of going out. I didn't know I was obvious about it, but he said it was cute. but I felt super bad cause I didn't think anything would happen since he was taken. Well we started hanging out and stuff when he was going out with the girl, but nothing ever happened but we just really got along and have a lot in common. Well after they broke up we started to get a little physical, but no sex.. and then I found out he was fooling around with his ex still. His ex is the one who told me and I flipped complete crap on him because I was so suprised that it had happened. I felt so stupid and so I stopped talking to him for awhile until he said his friendship was important and showed me how she was the one who started everything, he had hard evidence.. so I guess he really cared, hah! So I was like yeah whatever thats fine. So we talked off and on and didn't do anything for awhile and randomly would get in a little fight due to mis-communication and just stop. Then I moved away and things got different. He always was the one that started the talking after awhile. So I began talking to him again and things became better. We communicated better and just like old times its just easy to talk to each other. He said he wants to be there for me and help me if I ever need anything. And then at one point he randomly texted me " i love you" in a text since I didn't live around there. I didn't really take it to heart, but he isn't one to really joke like that, or a guy to joke like that. he also was saying how I never see him and all this and would drive 3 hours to see me, but i was so stunned. So I ended moving back and we pretty much hang out every week at least once and it always ends physical, but its just a lot of fun and laid back and we always laugh and smile. I also told him i feel bad for spending the night there cause everytime I go over I always spend the night, but he said you wouldn't be spending the night if I didn't want you to. We also have our own lives and own friends so its really nice. So to make a long story short.. Could he like me or even love me? Even though he said it. Not sure if its a friend thing or not?
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reader, Vcristina62 +, writes (16 January 2010):
Hmm I'd say maybe he was feeling lonely? I don't know the whole story but if he really loved you why are you still friends? He probably ment it as a
Friend thing and is trying to show you he's happy your in his life. If I were you i'd ask him about it. Worst thing he could say is he doesn't love you. But atleast you'll know the truth
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