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writes:i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show different he dosent raise his voice but insults me. he belives that am out to hurt him. he wont see me or will he call me or txt me. and when i do get a hold of him he is very distant and says that he is still mad at me. so should i take it like its over?.. y can he just let me know thats is over? is there a posibility that he dosent want to loose me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): CaringGuy is right, look at how he treats you.....not what he says. Hes not a nice guy. You deserve someone much better x
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reader, veronika  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I'm surprised you're still calling him your boyfriend. He doesn't sound like one, he sounds like an immature bully.
If it isn't over already, I think it's probably reached it's expiry date. He sounds like he's only going to get more controlling and bully-like. If he can't accept you for who you are, your past included, then I don't know why he's with you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2010):
Being a man, I can tell you about men. Measure us on our actions, nor our words. Any man can say 'I love you'. Only a good one will mean in, and he will also show it to you. Your boyfriend doesn't mean it in the slightest. End it and find a guy worthy of your time.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (16 January 2010):
 Dear Anon,
I am sorry to say this, but no man that loved you would treat you like that. He is a self-absorbed asshole.
With all of the SEVERE things I have seen, I wish you do one thing and one thing only. Do not stay with him.
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