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writes:Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and she broke up with me not to long ago for not actin like a boyfriend and just acting like a girlfriend but I was able to convince her to tal me back. I love this girl and I can't do any thing about getting a hard on when kissing and hugging her and I wanna be able to do it without embarrassing the both of us I font know what o do and b4 some of u say that it should be a compliment to her and everything take into account tht were 14 and even though we know about are bodies and know what going on down there and stuff were still 14 and Im pretty sure that would embarass us especially me what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Dude im 14 also, i had a different girlfriend last year who i dated since 7th grade, i used to have the same problem. Honestly man, its gona happen. If your gf has issues with it i cant help u. At first i knew my gf would think it was wierd but later on in the relationship, i found she didnt mind. It doesnt mean u desperately wana do her or something, its natural.
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reader, Jrh1731 +, writes (19 January 2010):
Jrh1731 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionK anon(girl) I guess I sorta get what u sayin and HELL NO how in the hell am I supposed to sit down with her and tell her somin like that and anon(guy) that's retarded it ain't that damn bad.and caring guy not alot help but thanks I understand this nowand same to honest anwser and to strontiumdog thinks man uve given me the best anwser I'm gunna take that advice
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reader, Jrh1731 +, writes (19 January 2010):
Jrh1731 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionK anon(girl) I guess I sorta get what u sayin and HELL NO how in the hell am I supposed to sit down with her and tell her somin like that and anon(guy) that's retarded it ain't that damn bad.and caring guy not alot help but thanks I understand this nowand same to honest anwser and to strontiumdog thinks man uve given me the best anwser I'm gunna take that advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): alright mr hormones, it looks like you havent had any input from a girl yet, im 14 too btw. truthfully i hate it when guys get hard and press it into you, because it just makes you seem like thats all you want out of a relationship. but if you were my boyfriend, and what youre saying has been happening, then all you need to do is tell her.
so unless shes a complete bitch, she wont laugh, shell understand. and as long as you are sincere, and you tell her that you dont mean it in a disrespectful way, shell apprieciate your honesty and openess.
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 Anon, if he does that he'll end up kicking her to death!
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (16 January 2010):
 Been there, done that. The problem you are having are normal. Believe it or not, after a while, you will be able to control your erections for when you truely need them.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
This is normal I'm afraid, and you'll suffer it for a little while longer. There isn't really anything you can do about it. It's just hormones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): Bro when I was 14 I would get a hardon from everything in the room. A freakin' table plant would get me up. It's normal.
If it is truly a problem and embarrassing for you this is probably the best solution. No joke, I've had to do it too. Duct tape that bad boy to your leg. It may hurt a little bit but you'll be out of the way and the pain will cause it to go back down. If she means that much to you then don't hesitate to do whatever it takes.
Or ideally get her to take care of it for you. ;)
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