A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with this man for some time, and I realize that I probably should have brought this up earlier. Now when we have sex he pulls out just before he releases himself and more often than not I do not have an orgasm. I know that for a lot of women, we don't have orgasms during sex, but I'm wondering how to talk to him about this. I don't want to upset him, since I know that he could easily take this the wrong way. What I would like would be for him to either stimulate me before or after sex. I have tried to show him a little bit, but I don't know if he understands what I'm trying to say. We don't really talk during sex either, but I think that's more because we're quiet people. Both of us are on the shy side. I'm not saying he is a bad lover, I just would much rather have an orgasm with him than through masturbation. I'm am partly afraid because I'm not a confrontational person and I don't like getting him upset and I don't like being upset or sounding like I'm complaining. I just don't know how to talk to him about this and when it's a good time. Please help and thank you.
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