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anonymous
writes:This guy that I was sleeping with tells me he doesn't feel he is ready for a relationship and he doesnt want to have just causal sex, so we both decided to remain friends. The day we decided that, he came over to mine and we were watching a movie and cuddling but then we ended up having sex. I said "it's ok, i know your not ready for a relationship, we still are friends" but he keeps trying to kiss me and I really like him. He is still trying to get over his ex girlfriend but he admits he has feelings for me and he could see himself in a relationship with me. I am doing the right thing in stopping him from kissing me, aren't I?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Why don't you use him for sex too?
Girls have desires too.
Only if you won't fall in love with him.
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (16 January 2010):
Yes, I think you are. If you have both decided to be friends then treat him like one. You probably don't snog your girlfriends. Or hold hands with them or cuddle up to watch movies together.
It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants at the moment. Becasue you really like him, you'd probably like to have a proper relationship with him so it's probably a wise idea to keep a bit of distance between you until he figures himself out. (But don't hold your breath)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
You are doing the right thing. Clearly he's trying to use you for sex, no matter what he says. Don't' be the rebound girl who's used.
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