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writes:so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never climaxes. why is it something to do with her maturity a psychological or atonomomy thing What, any answers would be greatly appreciated!!! True reasoning Please! Reply to this Question
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reader, BonesOfBabyDolls +, writes (31 January 2010):
I was seventeen when I first started having sex, before seventeen I could climax often from masturbation. However, for sex itself, it took me well over two months of trying with him before it even felt good. He was much much older and way more experienced than me, and it still took us a few months for me to adjust to it before I started climaxing. Be patient. Tease her with your fingers first, and see if you can't give her some level of pleasure that way before you penetrate her.
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Engage her mind first - her greatest sexual organ - then her clit before you even THINK about penetration.
And make sure she is relaxed and comfortable with the situation.
Good luck.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I first masturbated when I was 5 because it felt good. G spot orgasm came much later, in my twenties just because the guy knew what he was doing. The G spot is a rough spongy spot two inches up the vagina, facing the outside of the belly. For me to come foreplay is important at first, with someone I don't know well. Also, he has to last long, at least 20 minutes. Communication, chemistry is also very important. After dating for several months, with a connection on many levels, I am able to come in minutes (vaginal penetration and clit rubbing). A typical 19 year old girl probably still doesn't know what she wants or who she likes. But there are young porn stars who are just talented in that area.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): just ask her if there is any problems with what you are doing because she never climaxes. ask her what she wants you to do, you might be doing something that she doesn't want you to be doing.
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female
reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (16 January 2010):
 I was 41 years old, and had been married 3 times before I actually had an orgasm! It's frustrating for her too! She needs to experiment by herself to figure out exactly what makes her climax. Buy her some toys, and let her explore on her own...she will figure it out!Above all, pressuring her or showing your frustration will make it more difficult to achieve her goal!Good Luck!~BG~
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): It could be a number of things, It sometimes takes a while to get the hang of what different women like. Also, only 25% of females can orgasm during penetration, so this could also be a factor. Just keep trying out things x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): Its a maturity thing. She probably doesn't know her body well enough yet to know how to come. Ask her if she is able to come on her own and then follow the simple steps: first her coming on her own, then she being able to come with you in the same room as her, then with you touching her and she guiding you, then by yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
If she's younger, her experience may be an issue. All you can do is continue to experiment with her until she finds something that works for her. Remember, every woman is different, so maybe she's just not sure about what works for her yet. Don't put her under any pressure, because that will make her stressed and that will make it worse. Just experiment with her.
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