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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm 16 and in high school. i have this problem, ok theres this guy i met last year. i've liked him ever since i met him. sometime during last year he liked me but i didnt know and i said i only liked emo guys which he's not, so he gave up. towards the end of last year he found out that i liked him. we texted each other everyday, even before he found out i liked him. so we hung out one day and it went well. then i found out he lost interent in me. he felt bad so we hung out a few more times. we would hang out in the woods and he would carry me and we would bite each others noses and he gave me a big long hug and it felt so right. and well then he hung out with my best friend, and i dont really trust her, i had a feeling she told him something because he was acting different. All that happened on the last week of school. i didnt talk to him all summer and when school started again i still really liked him. i lied to him that i didnt, which he didnt like. anyway i found out that he still liked his ex-girlfriend and only liked me as a friend. a couple weeks later his ex rejected him again. i still liked him and he new that. so i guess he still didnt like me cause he would have done something. alway now we talk or at least i try to talk to him and treat him the same as i treat my other guy friends but its so hard. and well i really really like him. my friend says i'm in love with him, but i think i'm too young to know how that feels so i think i might be infatuated. anyway i am really really upset because of this guy. i really want him to like me. now know i cant make him. i've tryed getting over him so many times, but i just cant. i always think of him and i want to spend as much time i can with him. so someone please please help me. i have no idea what to do.
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reader, Jays  +, writes (17 January 2010):
it sounds like a kinda difficult situation to be in
but if he doesnt feel the same way, then remeber the fact that your only young and try going out with mates and seeing all the kind of boys the world has too offer, even tho he seems perfect for you and you cant imagine youself with anyone else that feeling will graducally be over come :)
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