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writes:im a freak. i love sex and sexual experiences. recently i've been craving an orgy. i told my bf about this and he was -so- not into the thought. he said he didn't and wasn't going to share me, and vice versa. is he being selfish?! or did i ask for something that we both cannot have in this relationship.. Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (16 January 2010):
No, he's not being selfish. Like many questions on here, are the women on here that don't agree to have a threesome with their husband/boyfriend and someone else selfish because they say "no"? I would say that anyone who is uncomfortable sexually with something isn't being selfish, but just uncomfortable, and there's nothing wrong with that.
I agree with satindesire and strontiumdog, it sounds like you two aren't into the same things sexually. You're wilder than he is and that isn't going to work. You need someone that's into having orgies or being a swinger...whatever you call it. Otherwise, it's going to be a HUGE problem in your relationship.
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