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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey. Im a little confused, im think my mate could have feelings for me but im unsure. I do like him and he got told that a long time ago now, meaning like a year and a half ago by someone. Things werent easy between us at the time and theres no way we could have been together because of other people. I wont go into it.We were out one night together with some others. He didnt speak to me much at first. For some reason he doesnt, hes fine with everyone else and will make an effort and if we're alone he will with me to an extent but otherwise he seems to find it easier to talk to everyone else. He asked me to go to this club with him, just us two and i said yes. after that we got on really well just making general conversation. But things got a little "heated" when we got to this club. We were just messing around. Well i was, and he tried to get something out my pocket and he kept looking at me and smiling. i sat on his knee and we were just playfighting. Then i was just sat there on his knee with my back turned to him and i felt him hug me from behind. I just thought its because im sitting here but then he held be even tighter and closer and he had his head in my hair and on my neck and i could feel him breathing. I cant really decribe it but it was like he was a little nervous but like he really wanted to if you understand me? Things carried on. We just kept playfighting, and cuddling. He got hold of me and lifted me up at one point and took me outside. Said he was sorry for the past but then we got told to go back inside and so he sat back down and pull me on his knee and just cuddled me for afew minutes before taking hold of my hand and saying hes sorry for everything in the past, im a great mate to him and he just kept looking and me so i just hugged him, and he seriously wouldnt let go of me at that point. We continued to cuddle and mess around, he kept putting his head on mine and then towards the end kept wrapping his legs round mine. But i put my hand just over his at one point to see what he'd do and he moved his, but then he did the same thing to me literally straight after. (btw in all this we WEREN'T drunk) and he;d never do that anyway.Im really confused now because the thing hes always seems quite shy around me compared to others. he only talks to me online if i talk to him first. But i keep thinking now does he have feelings for me and hes just to shy?Im unsure what to do next time i see him because we are both shy, we do struggle to talk, in his case i think actions speak louder than words, hes never had a proper girlfriend, im unsure whether hes kissed anyone before and hes always so weird around me. Sometimes i'd say uncomfortable other times hes fine it all seems to weird. What do you think he feels? and should i do anything next time we see each other? I do wonder if he did want something to happen why he didnt say so that night but thats up to him. But please understand for reasons im not going into i cannot simpily talk to him and ask him what it meant. He WONT talk about it and there are other reasons and i dont want to risk getting a false answer if i force him to talk. Thankyou x
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