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I just broke up with my fiance... advice please!

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Question - (16 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United States age , *mazing one writes:

Hi Everyone: This has not been a good week for me as of Monday I called off my engagement my fiance is using drugs we live together someone wrote me a letter last week stuck it in my front door saying he was a crack head and that is where all his money goes he has until the first to move out I am starting to wonder if he is depressed now we both are quite but this apartment is small and sometimes today I am in a bad mood my sister made me mad he let his nephew use his car and he wrecked it so I think he no longer has a car so there goes transportion. He was fine when he first moved in we have been living together for 2 months engaged 2 months right now we need more food until my daughter's payday what money he gets he goes over to the neighborhood store and gets us a little something.

I know my emotions are everywhere I tried to hold on but I could not he to me is in denial talking like we are still going to get married then the lies and he will not talk about things he should all he said to the letter was someone wont's to break up our happy home

somebody jealous maybe so but I have seen things okay.

Well again I want to know is he depressed because I do get bored like I said we both are quiet but there have been times we have talked more then we do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010):

no this has nothing to do with boredness he made a choice and drugs was it. and yes i think both of u guys are in denial him because he dosent accept the fact that he is an addict to whatever drug he is useing and u cause u dont face the reality of it and ur makeing up excuses to y he is useing drugs. i would just tell you to get rid of him cuz most users will not stop wht they are doing and perty soon he will start stealing from u or worst things can happen. really be carefull and do whts best for u not him.

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