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My boyfriend has temper tantrums, and my older lover wants us to continue after he marries, I feel he is using me

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Question - (16 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2010)
A female Liberia age 36-40, *a202 writes:

Dear Cupid,

I am in a relationship with a boy i love however his emotional tantrums over the smallest things are starting to get to my nerves and i do not know if i will be able to stand this for long. However, on the other hand i was seeing an older man who i have feelings for but he has of recent gotten engaged he wants us to continue seeing each other but i feel like he is using me. What should i do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2010):

That's great. Good luck to you. :)

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A female reader, na202 Liberia +, writes (2 June 2010):

na202 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hey caring guy,

your advice was the best thing i could do and i am now in a relationship with one great guy. He had to move away but we are trying long distance and it feels so right. Thank you i hope this works out.

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A female reader, na202 Liberia +, writes (16 January 2010):

na202 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your advice and for not judging me....

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2010):

The man who is engaged is using you for sex, so end it with him. Your boyfriend clearly isn't ready for a relationship, so end it with him as well. You need to spend time by yourself working out what you want from life. You're involved with two guys who are not right for you. End it with both, focus on yourself and find another guy who is mature and loves you. Take your time.

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