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Feelings for my first cousin once removed.

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Question - (16 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *M1218 writes:

Hello everyone!

I want to pose my question in a short manner, so here we go! Last January my much older cousin (she is only 5 yrs younger than my mom), and her daughter visited us from Iran. They stayed with us for one month then returned home. Anyways to cut to the chase,her daughter(who would be my first cousin once removed) is just a month younger than me, and we are now both 23. I have feelings for her, even though she was not aware of it at the time. We had a good relationship and got on well.In the year since they left, I had let her no in some ways of my true feelings for her through facebook and emails.

My question is that is it odd to feel attracted to a relative, and should I focus on other girls? She does live in Iran and I plan to visit after my education is finished. Is there a chance we can end up in serious relationship despite being related?

Thanks everyone and feel free to reply,and share any similar experiences you might have!

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A female reader, Jays United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

at the end of the day this girl is your cousin and if you got into a serious relationship with her the fact shes your cousin will always remain in the back of your head

maybe its best if you just go and find someone else theres loads of beautiful women in the world who your arent related too :) x

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