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writes: Ok so thank you for reading my question and I really need help so any suggestions would help a ton! Ok so lets start off with this im a guy in high school (sophmore) and I HAD a girlfriend and she was sophmore too. I started dating her in late October and we had relationship issues just about like everybody else but we seemed to get past it. I never cheated on her or did anything to hurt her. I always talked to her and actually listened to what she was saying and I did anything to make her happy, for instance I bought her a 100 dollar bear for christmas and a 50 dollar sweater before she went on a trip. All of my friends which are her friends too said that I was an excellent boyfriend and that my girlfriend didn't deserve me but I never paid attention to them because I loved her (still love her) Well recently she learned that she might move this summer to another region of the state and this troubled her. So after our first day at school back from our break I learned that she didnt know if she wanted to be in a relationship or not because she didnt want to get more attached and have to move later and get hurt (emotionally)So we ended up taking a break and the next week we broke up. Now this is where im asking help... We agreed to be friends but I dont think i can stand that I want to be with her and I would run to the end of the Earth to be with her (she was my first kiss =/) I would like to know if there is any possible things I can say or do to get this girl back. plz help me
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reader, Chanelle.x +, writes (17 January 2010):
Well it sounded like you were a real nyc couple.if your were as close as yu say yu shud talk to her . Tell her how much you love her n tell no matter what state or country yu will styll love n keep in contact with her.. Good luck:) x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 January 2010):
There isn't anything you can do. I think she has clearly made her decision to move on. She's saving herself pain and saving you more pain as well. LDR's require so much work, and at your age, it just can't happen. I'm afraid you just have to move on.
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