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writes:Hey Everyone :) i was just wondering if ye guys could help me out :/ i have a little problem, okay here goes.. I need tips on how to be more confident..i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i want to be able to be more socialable :/ i also go red really easily,which is pretty noticable aswell :/ so i was wonder if i could get tips on how to relax and being more confident, because i usually get teased about my hair colour (i have auburn hair and freckles lol)Thanks for reading, Kate xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 I found that I became confident by doing what I always wanted to do despite what other people think. Life experience helps me deal with future problems. I would also read a lot of books of psychology and human behavior. You don't need to be an extrovert to be confident. You need to know what you are good at. The question would be, why do you want to be more socialable? Does that have anything to do with prom? Career? Someone to attend your concert/musical/party? Society always tell you if you don't go to prom, parties, have boyfriends in school, then there is something wrong with you. Don't pay any attention to that.
There are 7 types of intelligences: Music, Math, Interpersonal, Spiritual Insight, Spatial, Visual, etc.
The world is not all about talking about boyfriends and the latest fashion trend.
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reader, wonton +, writes (16 January 2010):
Tell yourself you're awesome, even if you don't feel that way right now just say it. Whenever you see yourself, just say it out loud, "I'm awesome". Sooner or later you will believe it, even if you don't think you will.
Whenever someone asks you a question like "why are you doing that?" or "how did you do that?" just replying jokingly, "because I'm awesome, lol".
Don't mind the people making fun of your hair and freckles, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and when you're older, you will for sure have some guys chasing after you.
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