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female
age
30-35,
*ittleMissy
writes:Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the conversation withy current boyfriend, who I trust 100% by the way..... An he said tome something like "I love you and Id never by interested in any other girls, I'm not like that I don't even wanna look at people like that, I mean I notice attrictive women, naturally, but I never feel the need to watch them etc.", I never questioned him, he just ce out with it.Anyway we were tidying ip his cupboard and he found this maximmag with a few pages of nude shots, straightaway he goes ph look at this, she's got some nice pictures. Ok we looked. They were pretty classy. He said to me don't worry I feel no different looking at that than at this picture of a car and put the mag on the rubbish pile. So I went into the kitchen and he starts putting the rubbish in the bag and when I came back out he's sat staring at the picture. The problem is not the picture, it's the fact his behavoiur is opposite to what he's telling me. What do you guys think? Im so confused...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
Like all guys, he was taken by a visual image. It really means nothing. All men look at porn at some point, all men look at nude photos of women, just as women no doubt fantasize about all those good looking actors. It means nothing. Your boyfriend was honest. He said he noticed attractive women, but didn't feel anything for them. It honestly is nothing to worry about, though he was a bit careless to do it in front of you. He's a natural guy. He loves you.
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