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writes:I seem to notice these around me, the faithful, good, God fearing like myself for example still get heartbroken and suffer in love while the ones that play around, deceitful still seem to easily find love. Why?
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reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (18 January 2010):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo the last poster. So because You think God doesn't exist, that's why what? Good people have bad relationships or what? And talking of looking sexy, I dress sexy and decent and being God fearing doesn't mean I'm perfect, I am not a virgin but was very good and faithful to my boyfriend plus it simply means I fear God but not perfect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): God probably doesn't exist and the Bible gives poor advice about relationships. Sure there are a few good passages, but overall there are much better places to look. Go find your happiness and stop worrying too much about fearing God.
It also helps to look sexy, but not slutty. Ladder Theory predicts that sexy good faithful girls will get the best buy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): I hear ya! You've summed up exactly how I feel right now. It really does seem that way. I've just come out of a relationship where I've been cheated on for ten years.. found out last night. I wish I could offer you some comforting advice.. but all I can say is that people who are deceitful aren't capable of truely and wholly loving a person... and if you consider that they'll spend their entire life in search of that happiness and fulfillment that you or I feel in an HONEST relationship, than that kinda helps ease the pain.
These people will never be happy.. and will never experience true love. They have stone cold hearts.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2010):
But they don't really find love. They just use person after person. My girlfriend cheated with her ex on my birthday, and I did nothing wrong, and treated her very well. She still cheated. Then she cheated on him, then made her way through several other guys as well. She isn't happy at all. She's terribly unhappy. Whereas I took time getting over her, spent time building my own life up and now I'm with a fantastic woman. Nice people do get hurt, because we're easy to hurt and often find it hard to see the bad in people. You will find a great guy who will love you. Just take your time, get to know a few guys, make sure you're busy and focusing on your own life and you'll find him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010): Mostly, the good things in life dont fall easily into your lap. They have to be worked for and earned. Thats also true of a good relationship. You will find true love if you dont give up. Those that seem to find love so easily, the ones that play around and are deceitful. They dont love, just use people who love them. But how many of them are really happy? How many of those relationships work long term? Be fussy who you give your love. And if/when things dont work out....as happens sometimes. Try not to be too down about it. It just wasnt meant to be. Sometimes we have to kiss a few frogs before we find our prince but you will find yours. All the best x
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