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36-40,
*ifeiswierd
writes:for the past 10 months i've been 'getting to know' this bloke. We both fancied each other from the start, but for a couple of reasons couldn't 'date' properly. Still, since all that time ago we have spoken every day, and just got closer and closer. The most we have done is hugging/kissed a few times and held hands. About two months ago, he told me he loves me.. I thought he was lying, so we fell out because he didn't like my attitude to what he was saying. a few days later we made friends again, things carried on as normal. he'd occassionaly say 'love you' as he signed out of msn and stuff like that. Then he texed me saying it at midnight on new years which i thought was quite cute..Anyway, after that, i assumed he was just saying it because he wanted to sleep with me.. So, i told him that if we ever slept together i wouldn't be able to speak to him after because it would be too wierd so he told me that as much as he'd like to, if it meant me not speaking to him after, he'd rather that we didn't have sex. A few days ago i was thinking, and i realised how much i love him! so the next morning when i woke up, he had texed me and i just replied with 'i love you x' and he didn't believe me! he texed back saying omg, do you? or are you just messing with me? so i said yes etc.. then eventually we stopped texting, and started talking over msn and he said this "omg as if you have real feelings for me ..i feel happy!"and stuff like, can i actually kiss you now?! so we were just chatting like that for a while, then i said something like 'your such an amazing friend' and he said, no, I'm your lover.. a manly lover! I just said LoL.. and he replied with if you loved me, you'd be my girlfriend.. i'm prepeared to do anything. i found it very sweet.. but i just don't want to end up getting used! could he really love me? am i just being paranoid..i don't want to sleep with him and then have him leave and just not talk to me again. I know this is a very long question, i do not expect equally as long replies. thank you!
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reader, lifeiswierd +, writes (16 January 2010):
lifeiswierd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwoahh we do see each other, did you not read properly? i told him i didn't want to date him..not the other way round.
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